Hi @heatherbridgham .  I am not an employee, but I can agree with @REI-JenK and her recommendation.  I recently purchased the REI Co-op XeroDry GTX jacket for the exact same reason.  I wanted a jacket that didn't really look like, or feel like, a rain jacket.  This definitely fit the bill.  I'm really pleased with its look and performance.  In fact, I just came in from walking my dog during a downpour while wearing it and it kept me nice and dry.

Good luck on your search!

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