I have the same dimensions and have not found a good solution. REI pants are generally cut too narrow, though not as narrow as Prana and Patagonia pants which never, ever fit my hips. I have had some luck with Arc teryx sigma AR pants, but they aren't light weight and don't have a short option. Athleta seems more generally cut for curvy women and I have had good luck with shorts but not pants. Tights are my go-to, but don't work so well on hiking trails or in rain. So, I am down to tailoring....it's a shame - we are not the only two women in the universe with these sorts of dimensions and figures!