Traveling With a Partner

Benefits of Traveling With Someone Else

Sharing experiences with someone else when traveling can make your trip even more meaningful. Here are some other reasons to travel with another person:

• Togetherness:The first reason you should travel with someone else is to spend time with that person. Away from work and the demands of daily life, you'll have plenty of time to be together.
• Safety:Travel in areas of political unrest and trekking or backcountry travel is often safer with 2 or more people.
• Save money:If you plan on staying in hotels, you can save money by traveling with someone else since accommodations are usually charged by the room, not by person.
• It's easier:When you travel with another person, new places and situations can be less intimidating. Also, women traveling with a partner often avoid some of the harassment that single female travelers can encounter.
  
  

When It's Better to Go Alone

Sometimes it's better to go on your own than with a partner whose idea of travel doesn't match yours. In the following situations, you should consider going solo:

• When you're unsure about going alone:Don't let the fear of traveling by yourself stop you from taking that trip if it's something you really want to do. Having a traveling partner just for the sake of a warm body to keep you company won't make for a good trip.
• When your travel ideas don't match:If you think "whitewater rafting" and your partner thinks "umbrella drinks," it might be wise to go separate ways. Don't negotiate away the most important part of your trip just to please someone else.
  
  

Before You Go

To help avoid conflicts and disappointment while on the trip, it pays to spend some time talking with your partner before you leave. Be clear about your own goals for the trip, and open to compromise. Here are some topics you should discuss honestly with your partner so you both know what to expect when you travel together:

• Purpose:Why do you want to take the trip? What would you most like to get out of it?
• Schedule:How much time do you want to spend traveling? Do you prefer moving to a new place every day, or spending more time in 1 spot?
• Travel style:What type of places do you like to stay in? Will you eat just about anything, or would you rather stick to what you know? Do you like to have everything planned, or do you prefer to take things as they come along?
• Routines and habits:Are you a morning person or a night person? Would you rather be 10 minutes early, or do you always run late?
  
  

While You're on the Road

When you're traveling, it's important to maintain the open communication and willingness to compromise that you established before you started traveling together. Being outside of your comfort zone and traveling in a foreign environment can be stressful. Here are some suggestions on how to maintain harmony with your travel partner:

• Check-in sessions:Every couple of days, or once a week for longer trips, talk with your partner about how the trip is going. Make sure you're both getting what you want out of the trip, and express any concerns about the pace you're traveling and how much money you're spending.
• Take breaks:You don't have to spend every single minute of the day with your travel partner. If you'd rather go to the museum and your partner would rather head to the beach, split up for the day and meet back at the hotel for dinner. If you're traveling for a long period of time, consider spending a few days or weeks apart so you both can get what you want out of the trip, and enjoy each other's company later.